Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Dating Black Girls is Hard Work
By: John Akram
Dating has its inherent limitations and so do certain women. I've dated my share of women and one subject that is dear to my heart is dating black girls. Some of them have been an awesome experience, others I have left a very bad taste in my mouth. Lately, I been a regular contributor on many Facebook.com discussion pertaining to relationships, sex, love, money, etc. But my expertise would be more in the realm of being a gentlemen and how to appropriately treat women, specifically black girls.
The type of girls I usually date are in between the ages of 27-40. I don't even consider dating a women in her early 20's for maturity reasons, they still have to grow up and experience the world, party, date, learn about what makes them happy, etc. The 27-32 year old range is a very weird range, typically you have women that either have gotten out a bad experience from their 1st love in their early twenties and are ready to have some fun and not seriously date, which I am all up for. Then on the other hand, you have the black girls who are ready to settle and have some kids and aren't really trying to date long enough to find out if the man is quality or man enough for that type of commitment. So it's either all or nothing in that age group. Then you have the MILF's.
What is a MILF?
The definition is mothers that have it still going on and a youthfulness that is still desired by young and old men. Milf's are a new phenomenon, created by horny and wild socialites, has taken over the minds of single and married mothers. I have had older black women when I was in my early twenties and they were a blessing. The cooked, had great conversation, very intimate and respectful. Now, you have the new breed of MILFs, the breed of women who parties like there is no tomorrow, can't boil water, and bodies that aren't even close to being in shape. Yet, they have the attitude and confidence of a Halle Berry. So what is one to do?
Date them all
As my mother so eloquently stated, "date them all son." Women aren't the stay home moms of old. The internet and reality television has destroyed that concept. So instead of writing about changing the black women, let's just go with the flow and enjoy it for what it is. Whatever that is!
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