Get Him to Love You - Tips That Work

By Tina L. Jones

Is it hard figuring out whether a guy loves you or not? Do men just seem to do and say anything to make you think they're emotionally involved, but you have trouble trusting them? Have you been played for a fool too many times before and you now want to meet a really good man who will love you like you deserve? The world will always have men who enjoy breaking hearts, but rest assured, there are tons of great men out there who are looking for a woman like you to share his life with.

Unfortunately, if you're in a rush to get into this deeply emotional relationship, you may be out of luck because one of the first things a relationship needs is patience. The more you try to rush it, the more you'll end up hampering it.

Try to push the notion of a long term relationship out of your head and just concentrate on having the funnest date you can with him. Find out about him by letting him talk and show your honest interest and appreciation for what he has to say. Tell him about yourself without divulging everything there is to know. Just give him some insight into the more fascinating aspects of your life.

When dates are fun and free of pressure, you'll both be more relaxed and the desire to see each other again will be higher. With each additional date, maintain this level of fun and don't let the relationship get weighed down with your need to push it a bit faster.

If you're in too much of a rush to hear him say he loves you, pushing him to do so might keep him from ever saying it at all. When men start to feel the pressure to make something of the relationship, they often put on the brakes, especially if they're not ready to go there yet.

Since women are more apt to be in touch with their emotions, they allow themselves to fall in love much faster than men. Give the man in your life the time to catch up with you on his own. It's no fun being told and pushed into feeling something you're not yet sure off.

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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